Thursday, July 22, 2010

Remember, remember

I had a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.

I woke up with a headache.

I didn't realize the milk was gone til after I poured my cereal.

The checker at the grocery store was really mean.
-I get that the customer isn't always right. But you have to at least try to understand what they are saying before you just assume you are right. I was this girl's first customer of the day. I was really nice to her. And when she made a mistake that was going to cost me money, I was incredibly patient as I explained over and over to her what had happened. She scanned two identical coupons, but somehow the second one voided the first instead of coming off, so I wasn't getting credit for either coupon. She just wasn't listening to me, assuming she was right, and the more I tried to explain it to her, the meaner she got. I apologized over and over, even though I was right AND polite, and she was still mean. Even when she realized what had happened, she treated me like I had ruined her entire day.

I had to go to work, not even knowing if I will get paid for it, and now my feet are the size of bread loaves. (The microfilm reader I have to use is not great for pregnant people.)

I had to leave work and rush to the doctor's office because they moved up my appointment at the last minute because my doctor had to do an emergency surgery.

I ended up waiting for an hour and a half and was finally seen AFTER my initial appointment time.

He was supposed to see if I was dilated or effaced and how much Bun weighs. Instead, all I found out is that his heart is still beating and I gained 6 pounds in a week.

Also, because he had to rush out and I didn't get checked, I probably won't get my early induction, which I was promised months ago.

When I finally got home at 6 to put away the groceries from this morning, I found that one of my delicious juices leaked all over the bag because the seal was broken. So I had to clean it up AND throw it away.

And because it took me so long to get home, Mark had to leave as soon as I got here.

AND I tripped over the same empty coke bottle four times trying to put away the groceries.

But...even though it was a BAD BAD day, I realize that bad days are supposed to happen. And when I stopped long enough to REMEMBER, I realized that despite all the bad stuff, really good things happened today as well. Another lady at the grocery store told me I have a beautiful pregnancy glow, she couldn't tell I was pregnant until I turned around, and that I look great for as far along as I am. And even though the scale was mean, the nurse said she couldn't believe it, she thinks I look great, and that it doesn't mean anything. I had a good talk with my little brother on the phone. I got free blueberries. I got a $10 VISA rewards card in the mail. I didn't have to take off my pants at the doctor, AND my baby has a strong heartbeat.

4 comments:

Amy and Spencer said...

Sorry to hear about your bad day but glad to also hear about the good things that happened. I'm excited for bun to arrive!

Jamie Simms said...

Having those bad days just makes you appreciate the good all the more! Hang in there and I hope the delivery goes well. You'll be there soon enough!

Sarah McK said...

Wow, what a day! I gained massive amounts of weight right at the end as well. I think that's normal.

Laus said...

Friend! I am so sorry to hear of the mean grocery store lady. AND that the dr's scale recorded you 6 pounds heavier...let's just say it was wrong and even if it was right, you probably were holding lots of water weight from all the running around you've been doing. One last thing...I'm so proud of you!!! You are amazing! Amazing that you made it through the day and amazing that you remembered bad days happen! LOVE YOU!